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Wedding Blessings, Wedded Bliss
A
Celebration of Love & Marriage
“ … so Anna takes forty dollars
in gold for her dower as well as a legion of virtues with which
to bless her
husband.”
~Abigail May Alcott journal of May 23, 1860
Having indulged “the pleasant little conceit of Anna’s”
that she be married on the anniversary of her mother’s wedding,
Abigail May Alcott later pressed a fragrant stem of the wedding flower
-- lily of the valley -- into her journal and wrote that she hoped her
daughter would “find herself fully possessed of the strength,
endurance, all abiding love, to meet the exigencies and aspirations of
wedded life.” For all in the Alcott family, as with most
families, this special occasion evoked a wide range of responses,
including the startling comment from the usually copious
father-of-the-bride that, “I cannot yet write about it.”

On May 23, 1860, Anna Alcott and John Pratt were
married in the Parlor of Orchard House. The few family members
and close friends who were invited watched as this tender-hearted
couple pledged their lives to each other and celebrated with cake and
dancing on the lawn. Louisa May Alcott's impressions of this
event were captured in her diary and used, years later, in the writing
of Little Women:
"A lovely day, the house full of
sunshine, flowers, friends, and happiness.
Uncle S. J. May
married them, with no fuss,
but much love, and we all stood round her.
She in her
silver-gray silk, with lilies of the valley (John's flower)
in her bosom and hair.
We have had a little feast ...
then the
old folks danced round the bridal pair making a
pretty picture to remember, under our Revolutionary elm."
Every few years a commemoration of the
wedding is held at Orchard House with Alcott descendants and
their family members re-creating the same scene of years
ago. Those in attendance echo Mr. Alcott’s heartfelt warm wishes:
“May all good and grace
attend her and him!”
| Alcott descendant Tanja
Baur (Germany) gazes at portraits of Anna and John Pratt in
the Parlor of Orchard House in preparation for the wedding
re-enactment. |
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